Dan Savage offers the advice that could save a million relationships.

Dan Savage offers the advice that could save a million relationships.

O.K., the following phrase from the most recent Savage Lovecast might not save every relationship, but it can improve every relationship:

Say something! Communicate! Guys* wanna know what your favorite thing is so they can do it!

If your sex life is unsatisfying or problematic, it's probably because neither of you are following the above advice. Just do it. And while you're at it, subscribe to the Savage Lovecast for other excellent advice both obvious and not so obvious.

*Girls wanna know too, I was just directly quoting.